Comments on: Please help - How do I turn my life around from them? http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm Wed, 23 May 2012 16:05:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Oo Wiskey oO http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm/comment-page-1#comment-12617 Oo Wiskey oO Mon, 16 Aug 2010 21:41:23 +0000 http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm#comment-12617 Wow! Sorry about your pain. There are times in someones life where they need to move on... This is one of those times. Don't focus so much on your past... put more stock in your future. Look forward to new beginnings, better love and a stronger life. There are men out there that have more love and compassion to offer then this man you were with. Men are a fickle creature, I know I'm one of them, we tend to have our life and our companion. I have been through hell and back twice before I met the woman I should have found 10 years ago. Take 2 years to heal yourself before attempting to find another man. Find a man who is open, honest, and committed to YOU. Save marriage for 3 years. You will find those things that drive you crazy in that relationship. If they are things you can live with and not change, then marry. A person will only change themselves if they want to. It can not be forced by someone else. That is where most relationships fail. Dishonesty is another. Just remember never to hold back anything. Slowly get to know someone through dating leaving everything open and honest. If this person finds that your flaws are live able, you find a stronger relationship. Wow! Sorry about your pain. There are times in someones life where they need to move on… This is one of those times. Don’t focus so much on your past… put more stock in your future. Look forward to new beginnings, better love and a stronger life.

There are men out there that have more love and compassion to offer then this man you were with. Men are a fickle creature, I know I’m one of them, we tend to have our life and our companion. I have been through hell and back twice before I met the woman I should have found 10 years ago.

Take 2 years to heal yourself before attempting to find another man. Find a man who is open, honest, and committed to YOU. Save marriage for 3 years. You will find those things that drive you crazy in that relationship. If they are things you can live with and not change, then marry.

A person will only change themselves if they want to. It can not be forced by someone else. That is where most relationships fail. Dishonesty is another. Just remember never to hold back anything. Slowly get to know someone through dating leaving everything open and honest. If this person finds that your flaws are live able, you find a stronger relationship.

]]> By: Erin http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm/comment-page-1#comment-12618 Erin Mon, 16 Aug 2010 21:41:23 +0000 http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm#comment-12618 Think of the cheating as a loyalty test, he went and betrayed you for another woman, he had a choice, so did she, and he picked her. Think of the cheating as a loyalty test, he went and betrayed you for another woman, he had a choice, so did she, and he picked her.

]]> By: olderman http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm/comment-page-1#comment-12619 olderman Mon, 16 Aug 2010 21:41:23 +0000 http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm#comment-12619 Sound to me like you tried very hard to make a non starter relationship work. This guy has deep issues with commitment. There was probably nothing you could have done to turn him. Live on. Look for a genuine loving partner, one who will marry you. Don't continue to bang your head against the wall ! Start over, life is good. Sound to me like you tried very hard to make a non starter relationship work. This guy has deep issues with commitment. There was probably nothing you could have done to turn him.

Live on. Look for a genuine loving partner, one who will marry you. Don’t continue to bang your head against the wall ! Start over, life is good.

]]> By: joe.attaboy http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm/comment-page-1#comment-12620 joe.attaboy Mon, 16 Aug 2010 21:41:23 +0000 http://hurricanequestions.com/please-help-how-do-i-turn-my-life-around-from-them.htm#comment-12620 Good God, lady, why didn't you run as far as you could from this guy four years ago? Turn around, walk away, screw everyone else and what they think, and get on with your life. You've already wasted far too much time on this clown. If he turned his back on you once with someone else, don't think for a moment that he won't do it again...after you marry him. Walk away. Now. Good God, lady, why didn’t you run as far as you could from this guy four years ago? Turn around, walk away, screw everyone else and what they think, and get on with your life. You’ve already wasted far too much time on this clown. If he turned his back on you once with someone else, don’t think for a moment that he won’t do it again…after you marry him.

Walk away. Now.

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